Believe it or not, pressure is good for us, but we dislike it. We learn things under pressure that we could no other way. We move under pressure. Wisdom chooses to move in healthy ways, caring ways, other-focussed and self-emptying. Nature moves under pressure, the earth, sea, and trees. Make a choice to not crumble but grow. This timber moved a lot yet did not give in or crack. There’s a lesson here.